David Anthony Avitabile: U.S. Army vet and Cos Cob Fire Police Patrol member

September 4, 2024 at 11:34 p.m.

David Anthony Avitabile, 86, of Cos Cob, Conn., died peacefully of old age Aug. 2, 2024.

David, affectionately known as "The Shirl" to some, was born in Paterson, N.J. to Guido and Lucy Avitabile.

He grew up in Port Chester and built a vast and strong network of lifelong friends who remained with him until the end.

His family owned the Atlantic Bottling Works on Bush Avenue in Port Chester, and as a kid he delivered bottles of soda to local shops.

He graduated from Iona Prep in 1956 but was adopted by the Port Chester High School graduating class of 1957, even attending all their high school reunions.

After serving his country honorably in the U.S. Army as a member of the 82nd Airborne Division, he returned to Port Chester where he continued to cultivate these enduring friendships that were a source of great joy and support throughout his life.

Mr. Avitabile was a man of many roles and talents— as a veteran who proudly served his country, he continued to give back to his community as a dedicated member of the Cos Cob Fire Police Patrol for 28 years which he joined in 1996 and remained active in until his health prevented him from responding any longer.

During his time with the Patrol, he became known for his dedication, bravery, and the positive influence he had on those around him.

He was a sound ear to listen to problems at the firehouse, personal issues, or simply share his wisdom on body building, nutrition and life, always accompanied by a few good-witted jokes.

The Patrol remembers him fondly: “Dave will be missed by all of us. We could all use a few more Daves in our lives.”

Mr. Avitabile played an active role in the fabric of the Greenwich Country Day School community, serving in many capacities as a weightlifting coach and a Lower School Science Lab caretaker, among others.

Over the years, he could be found at the faculty lunch tables sharing stories with faculty and staff alike and always had time and energy to give to his colleagues and the students.

His faith was a guiding force in his life, and he was a devoted member of his church.

He was a man who loved unconditionally, both people and animals, always showing kindness and generosity to all and was a person who would brighten your day with a reliable Sunday conversation, lending a listening ear or a comforting word when needed.

His warmth and wisdom made him a cherished confidant and a loyal friend; those who knew him describe him as a steadfast presence in their lives, someone who could always be counted on for support and a good laugh.

He is survived by his brother, Paul, his niece, Rena, and an immense extended family of friends and loved ones who will deeply miss him.

A memorial service will be held Sat., Sept. 7 at 10:40 a.m. at St. Timothy's Chapel, 1034 North St., Greenwich, where family and friends will gather to celebrate his life.

Following the service, there will be a celebration of his life from 12-3 p.m. at the Greenwich Water Club, 49 River Rd., Cos Cob, open to all friends and family who wish to honor his memory and share in the joy of his remarkable life.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the Cos Cob Fire Police Patrol would be greatly appreciated, honoring his spirit of service and commitment to his community.

Dave’s passing leaves a void that will be felt by all who knew him, but his legacy of kindness, service, and love will continue to inspire.

He will be remembered as a father figure, a brother, an uncle, a man of faith, and above all, a true friend to many.

Donations may be made at http://www.ccfpp.org or mailed to Cos Cob Fire Police Patrol, PO Box 202, Cos Cob, CT 06807.